Tuesday, 30 December 2008

Do New Year Resolutions Bring Solutions?


Every year, around this time, millions of people make their famous New Year's Resolutions...
I've never really been one to make these strange promises to myself but instead do all the things throughout the year that I want to do, or decide to do.
I guess mine can be seen as "all around the year resolutions" - some are successful and others not...

However this year I have made a New Year Resolution: I have promised myself that I will join a gym and get the hard body that I crave. I've already seen the perfect abs and pecs that I want in a glossy magazine ;) haha!
Or will that idea be forgotten in mid-January when I could decide to just do more walking and running instead?! Who knows! The life of a New Year Resolution is remarkably short!

But my important questions are:
When is a resolution truly resolved? Does anybody really see them through to the end and succeed with all their personal promises?
Does a resolution truly bring solution?

I stand by and watch as friends and family make these resolutions and after one or two months they are cast aside, forgotten or just given up as being too boring.
So does anybody really change in the New Year? or is it all false hope?
Those diets that are started, hobbies that begin, habits given up, new languages to learn, vices thrown away...
Is it all just a waste of time? Or are there really lots of strong-willed people out there with New Year Resolution success stories that are life-changing?

I'd be very interested to hear everyone's resolutions for this year, or lack of them....

In the meantime I'd like to take this opportunity to wish a very Happy New Year to all my dear blogging friends!
May 2009 be a complete success story for each and every one of you!!
with peace, health, wealth, love, luck, inner-tranquility and above all else lots of happiness!!

Let the fireworks begin!!!!!!!!
and lets start planning our 2009 blog posts now!!! - Oops! Was that a New Year Resolution?!!



Sunday, 28 December 2008

"Running Away At Christmas" - Original Poetry By Me

Every single December,
I get the urge to just run away,
Away from a time of sadness,
That for me is Christmas Day.

My childhood was spent loving Christmas,
And our home was a grotto of cheer,
Until the day that God took my Mum,
And since then Christmas only brings fear.

So year after year I run,
Far from the shimmering lights,
Waiting until it's all over,
Blocking out the Silent Nights.

Maybe one day I'll stop running,
Maybe I'll even put up a tree,
But every year it's the same,
And Christmas can never catch me.

© 12/2008

Wednesday, 24 December 2008

A Wonderful Merry Christmas To Everyone!

Hi everyone! I am travelling at the moment (doing my usual "running away from everything" at Christmas time) so I haven't been able to comment on any of your blogs or write any new posts lately.....
but I couldn't not come here to write a quick post to wish you all a Very Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!

2008 has been the "birth year" of my Blog and it has been such an incredible pleasure to meet so many wonderful, kind-hearted, funny, caring and fantastic friends here! When I started my Blog I just never imagined that it could be possible to find such wonderful, talented and genuine people with such big hearts in the virtual world! I want to take this opportunity to say a huge Thank You to each and every one of you for your friendship this year! It has truly meant such a lot to me...

Isabella Saes, Jeannie, Maggie May, MenopausalOldBag, GoneBackSouth, Debs Lehner, Ciara, RiverPoet, Expat Mum, David Mcmahon, Murilo Ribeiro, Sergio Brandao, Ana Duarte, Leo, Crystal Jigsaw, Peter, Sandi, Carol, Moannie, Grumpy Old Ken, Mike Harling and to anyone else who I may have forgotten:

Hope all of you and your families have a Fantastic Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll be back soon!


Wednesday, 17 December 2008

Madonna In Brazil

Madonna fever reached boiling point in Brazil last weekend as she arrived in Rio de Janeiro to do 2 shows of her "Sticky & Sweet" world tour at the Maracana Stadium, on the 14th and 15th December: her first shows in Brazil for 15 years since "The Girlie Show" world tour in 1993.
I was at that one in London, also the "Blonde Ambition" world tour in 1990 and the one before that; the "Who's That Girl" world tour in 1987... Yes it would appear that I'm a Madonna fan, along with my Sister who accompanied me to all of the above shows in London.

I was at her concert at the Maracana Stadium in Rio on Monday 15th December and it was phenomenal! At 50 years old this woman has the energy of someone half her age... granted that she has had some work done and trains like an athlete every single day so who wouldn't have the body of a racehorse?!

This is a photo of Maracana Stadium for anyone who doesn't know of it:
On her first night (14th December) in Rio it was raining non-stop but the show went on, although for many songs she had a security guard holding a large black umbrella over her and she slipped and fell once on the wet stage... she should be more careful as she could risk having to get a hip-replacement at her age!

I was lucky as on Monday night when I went it didn't rain and so I guess the show was more energetic, it certainly was energetic.
This was the Madonna I remembered from those past shows in London... I always thought she got a little bit too serious while she was married to Guy Ritchie, maybe she felt she had to conform to married life and be the typical English housewife, English Mother... "her indoors" to an Englishman, she seemed as if she was becoming boring.

Now she seems more liberated, refreshed, and the joy overflowed into her amazing performance on Monday night, although I hear the divorce has cost her around 92 million Dollars so maybe she's only smiling on the outside....

Half way through the show she asked someone in the front row of the audience to request a song for her to sing, she said "But if I don't like the song I'm not singing it!" the request was "Dress You Up" and she started singing it acapella and getting all of us in Maracana Stadium to join in with her... a rare intimate moment in such a vast stadium which is normally home to historic football matches between Brazil and the world.

In all she sang 25 songs and the show lasted for just over 2 hours, the crowd went wild, like Brazilians really know how to! The experience of being in that stadium with 60,000 people going crazy for the 50 year old diva and singing along to all her songs is something everyone should experience at least once in their life! The atmosphere alone makes you get goosebumps, it was a huge party inside Maracana, a carnaval.

Madonna and her 3 children were staying at the Copacabana Palace Hotel in Rio de Janeiro, the city's most luxurious hotel, where anyone who's anyone has stayed: Princess Diana, Elton John, U2, Freddie Mercury, George Michael.. the list goes on and on...

She took over the whole 7th floor penthouse suites of the hotel and the paparazzi and fans were camped outside every day and night hoping to get a glimpse and a photo of her and her children, which she rewarded them with sometimes.


Apparently she was planning to visit some sites in the "Cidade Maravilhosa" (wonderful city - Rio de Janeiro) on her days off with her children, which would include visiting the Cristo Redentor (Christ the Redeemer Statue) and one of Rio's largest favelas... who knows: maybe she wanted to get an idea of how poor people live, or maybe she's looking to adopt another child...

The "Sticky & Sweet" world tour shows us a new Madonna, and there's been so many eh? this woman that re-invents herself every year in order to survive the music industry and continue to stay popular, of which she succeeds 100%.
I would say that the Madonna of this year is "Muscular Hip-Hop Madonna" but her show had many of her old hits as well as the new stuff from her new CD "Hard Candy"

I must admit that I really miss "Slut Madonna" from her 1990 "Blonde Ambition" world tour days... I'll never forget that hot summer night in Wembley Stadium in London when she pranced around the stage in her coned pointy bras, swearing constantly and faking a 4 minute orgasm to the sounds of a middle-eastern "Like A Virgin" as she gyrated on a red velvet bed.

I remember there was a family standing next to me, we were only about 12 feet from the stage, the Father staring at her in a trance whilst the Mother covered her Daughter's eyes... obviously they were at the wrong concert! Didn't they know that "Slut Madonna" had not long released a pornographic book called "Sex"?!

At the end of the show on Monday night she put on a Brazilian football shirt, with the number 10 on the front and her name on the back, and sang her last song.
The crowd went absolutely wild!!

All in all it was an unforgettable night, a night of new songs, old songs, songs from my youth, songs that remind me of exact moments in time.
Songs performed by a true professional, a real performer whose shows are a feast for the eyes, nothing short of spectacular!
In the meantime I'm still hoping the re-invention cycle of this woman will turn full circle and that "Slut Madonna" of the 90's will return... although looking at these photos maybe she already has!




Sunday, 7 December 2008

George Michael - December Song (I Dreamed Of Christmas)


Being a huge George Michael fan this is something for me to be very excited about...

On Christmas Day George will be giving an exclusive Christmas gift to his fans: the free download of his first new Christmas song in 20 years (since Wham's "Last Christmas") called "December Song" (I Dreamed Of Christmas)
So if you go to http://www.georgemichael.com/ on the 25th December you can download the free high quality MP3 of the song.
In the meantime I am posting the advance copy of the song here for you to listen to, the lyrics are at the bottom too...

I've listened to the song many times now and it grows and grows on you. George's voice is of course beautiful and perfect as ever and he has written this song as a pure dedication of love to his Mother, who passed away from cancer in 1997, all sung with so much love and feeling.

Anyone who has followed George's life and career will identify totally with this song and all it's underlying multi-faceted meanings. He always writes songs like this; songs that on the surface seem simple enough but when you look closely at his words you see that there are many messages within those verses...

The part where he sings "Maybe since you’ve gone I went a little crazy" He's singing about how hard it has been for him since he has lost his Mum and how he has gone "off the rails" a bit with the effect of her loss.
I can totally relate to all of that and feel a pain of longing for my own Mum (who also lost her life to cancer) when I hear this song and I feel I share many similarities to things that have happened in his life.

Apart from meeting Antonio most of the 90's was pretty crap for me and I have had many years of loss and grieving, but I too am like George when he sings "But the snow that falls upon my bed, That loving I needed, Falls every single day" - meaning that now he has love every single day from his partner.
We all know that Christmas time is particularly hard for those of us that have lost parents and loved ones, Christmas time was such a special time for my Mum and she made everything so magical like nobody else ever could and every Christmas is a very sad time for me, Christmas for me is remembering my Mother's smile and joy.

George has put all his feelings into a truly beautiful and poetic song and I'm sure his Mother is smiling down and is feeling very proud of him indeed!

Enjoy this wonderful song and don't forget to get your download on Christmas Day!

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Merry Christmas
Merry Christmas
May your every New Year dream come true

Sweet December song
The melody that saved me
On those less than silent nights
When snow would fall upon my bed
White sugar from Jesus
And take me to the day
She could always smile
The Virgin Child would always show, you see
Just to save me (Just to save me)

There was always Christmas time
To wipe the year away
I guess that Mum and Dad decided
That the war would have to wait

There was always Christmas time
Jesus came to stay
I could believe in peace on Earth
And I could watch TV all day
So I dreamed of Christmas

Maybe since you’ve gone
I went a little crazy
God knows they can see the child
But the snow that falls upon my bed
That loving I needed
Falls every single day
For each and every child
The Virgin smiles for all to see
But you kept her from me

There was always Christmas time
To wipe the year away
I guess that Mum and Dad decided
That the war would have to wait

There was always Christmas time
Jesus came to stay
I could believe in peace on Earth
And I could watch TV all day
And so I dreamed of Christmas
Yes, I dreamed like you

Merry Christmas
Merry Christmas
May your every New Year dream come true


Friday, 5 December 2008

"My Little Piece Of Heaven" - Original Poetry By Me



You're my little piece of heaven,
My sunshine up above,
And when I look into your eyes,
My heart beats full of love.

You're the rain upon my shoulders,
And the wind that guides me through,
And when I look into your eyes,
My heart beats just for you.

You're my sky and all it's stardust,
And my wondrous galaxy,
You're my Latin universe,
You're the whole wide world to me.

You take my hand in the darkness,
And you lead me to the moon,
You play my heart a symphony,
We're two notes - always in tune.


© 12/2008